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On the flip side, not every prompt needs to be that thought-provoking. Lean into your humor, too—although Spelman warns to do so wisely. “A well-placed humorous prompt can help break the ice and set a light-hearted tone,” she says. “However, avoid relying solely on humor as it may overshadow your genuine qualities.” The solution? Choose a balance of funny and thoughtful prompts that will lead your match to a deeper understanding of who you are.

On the flip side, not every prompt needs to be that thought-provoking. Lean into your humor, too—although Spelman warns to do so wisely. “A well-placed humorous prompt can help break the ice and set a light-hearted tone,” she says. “However, avoid relying solely on humor as it may overshadow your genuine qualities.” The solution? Choose a balance of funny and thoughtful prompts that will lead your match to a deeper understanding of who you are.