I am a king and respectful older guy trying to have some fun. I am a former lifestyle (swinger) member so I know the rules of the road. I am a good chatter and always show respect and expect that in return. My friends accuse me of being an original hippie, which means I am very open, comfortable in my body, and I smoke. (Being that I am out of the 60's, that would be expected!) If you like my cam, I would appreciate letting me know. If you don't like it, there are many more cams to choose from. Have fun and be safe out there.