Have you ever been in a Mistress and slave relationship?

I am a mistress. My men serve me as they wish. Everything goes well unless they refuse to obey me. There are natural consequences to their behavior. My husband went back to Bangladesh after I told him not to go and to wait until he got his green card. I tried to get a visa to get him home but the department of Justice investigated him and advised he had done something illegal so he is permanently banned from the USA. He was not being honest with me so I couldn't give him better advice. That was 18 yrs ago and I haven't met a man I wanted a relationship with since. I just really loved him, and our relationship was fabulous as long as he obeyed